Why Personalized Wedding Decor Details Matter:
I planned, designed, and decorated my own wedding in 2009. This was two years before I launched this company and, honestly, didn’t really have clue what I was doing. We threw a seated dinner reception for 100 guests on a budget that was really tight. We didn’t have an extra dollar to spend on anything that wasn’t completely necessary. Since I love a challenge, love designing, love textile design, and love searching for treasures – off to flea markets, random side of the road barns, and fabric stores to find some fun color to jazz up our plain reception space.
I found vintage bed sheets (the pink and blue floral), retro curtains (the green and teal geometric), and modern cotton twill (the navy and pink fabric) that would all soon decorate the tables at my wedding reception full of our closest loved ones. The vintage, shabby chic look was all the rage for weddings back in 2009.
Our best people dined and laughed and cried over these linens. People who have since passed away, like my grandfather and my dad, ate a meal over these beautiful fabrics that I spend hours searching for.
After our wedding, the fabrics were kept in a box in the back of a closet. I had always wanted to make something out of them, but never really got around to it or had much inspiration. Then I got pregnant with Dean. The weeks leading up to my due date were spent eating spicy food, bouncing on a yoga ball, and sewing this baby quilt out of the fabrics that I used as table linens at my wedding. Eight days past my due date, I was still hand stitching the binding over a gigantic belly full of baby.
This quilt now has a bigger story. It has a legacy that can be passed down. I can say to Dean when he’s at an age when he’ll care, let’s say 25, “your dad and I were married around these fabrics and you used this quilt when you were a baby.” Then, in my biggest dreams, my grandkids will use the quilt too. Now with baby #2 on the way, I’m brainstorming new quilt patterns to use the same fabrics for his own baby quilt.
This is why wedding decor details matter.
The decor details matter in the long run. They matter when you can fetch a keepsake out of a dusty box in a closet to show your kids something from your wedding. I couldn’t have made this quilt from the basic white linens provided by my caterer. You can’t display a cake topper in your home if you didn’t purchase one. That incredible custom welcome sign? Yep, it won’t be hung in the foyer of your first home if you didn’t have one welcoming your guests at your ceremony.
For me, I finished the quilt the day before I gave birth at over a week past my due date. I took Dean’s monthly photos on it (month 3 and month 9 above), played on it, napped with it, and all around treasured it as a memento from all of my favorite people (two of which are no longer here) being all in the same room in 2009.
The details aren’t about throwing a “blog-worthy” wedding. They aren’t about impressing your friends or living up to your pinterest board. And for goodness sake, please do not go into debt over some party decor. The decor details are about creating an aesthetic space at your reception that makes you feel relaxed, rejuvenated, loved, cared for – however you want your wedding to feel. Keepsakes, mementos, that little, physical piece of your wedding that you can decorate your home with – that’s what the decor details are for.
This post was originally shared in 2016.
Wedding DIY projects with the EasyPress 2
Wedding DIY projects are a hot topic around the industry. Either you hate them (most wedding vendors), love them (DIY bloggers), or are in-between (pretty much all couples), I’m sure you will encounter some form of wedding DIY in your planning process.
My best advice for wedding DIY projects are to make them: A) completely unique to your wedding, B) as fast as possible, and C) as impactful as possible. No one wants to get wrapped up in a project that will take 40 hours without any big impact.
When Cricut sent me their new EasyPress 2 in two fun sizes, I went right to my napkin stash to try some wedding DIY Projects.
Napkins are a spot on the table that doesn’t see a lot of DIY action. They are relatively cheap to rent and all end up getting dirty. BUT – they are also equally as inexpensive to purchase in bulk and a perfect piece of real estate for some iron-on action.
First, I used the new EasyPress 2 in the big size: 10″ x 12″. This thing is hefty. It makes ironning on larger designs twice as fast as the previously smaller EasyPress. And what did I say above? The faster the DIY the better. Cricut thought of everything this time around and designed a custom easypress mat to do all your pressing on. No more dingy bathroom towels under all my projects!
The larger surface area of the 10″ x 12″ EasyPress 2 was big enough to cover this entire geometric triangle design.
Next, I tried out the teeny EasyPress 2 baby. At 6″ x 7″, this thing is perfect for smaller iron projects. I designed a napkin that doubles as a place card. Another rule of DIYing: try to make your projects do double duty. Every napkin at this wedding would potentially be decorated with a custom glitter iron-on of each guest’s name to mark their seats.
The materials used on these projects:
- EasyPress2 10″ x 12″
- EasyPress2 6″ x 7″
- EasyPress Mat
- Foil Iron-on
- Glitter Iron-on
- White Cotton Napkins
This is a sponsored conversation written by me on behalf of Cricut. The opinions and text are all mine.
Podcast Interview: The Big Wedding Planning Podcast
Hello lovely people! This week I’m interviewed on a super fun podcast, The Big Wedding Planning Podcast, where we talk all things wedding design, my own budget wedding, how to get the most out of Pinterest to design your wedding, and general goodies all about event design and flowers here in NYC.
You can listen on iTunes RIGHT HERE.
Do you have a podcast that needs guests? I love talking about all things wedding design, flowers, working with clients, budgets, Brooklyn, being a mom to a crazy four-year old. Email me at Michelle@MichelleEdgemont.com.